Seeing a need for friends and families with a loved one in ARDS crisis to have contact with others in the same situation, we added this page to the Pen Pal Circle. If you are interested in posting a message here, please fill out the short form provided to obtain the necessary information we need to do so.

 

Kristina Tracey kltracey@gmail.com
My father had knee replacement surgery, which lead to aspiration pneumonia then ARDS. He has been in the ICU in a coma for last 33 days.

posted 12/22/2008
E. Rudin erudin@sbcglobal.net
On November 30th 2008, my uncle had pain and had his blood pressure checked while they were in Wal-Mart and it said 155 over 122 so he immediately went to the hospital. He had suffered a heart attack. They tried to give him Plavix and after that he had an emergency transfer to St. Joseph in St. Charles. He had angeoplasm and triple bypass surgery on December 4th. He was actually doing okay from the open heart surgery for the next couple of days, but he got worse and he now had pneumonia. He was running a fever and eventually he had to be sedated and put on a ventilator. It is now December 21 and every day it is up and down and you never know who to believe. Some doctors give us hope and some make us think that he has no hope. The nurses for the most part have been wonderful. Today, his lung collapsed and we are all here in the ICU waiting room wondering what that means and what happens next. We have said so many prayers that God is bound to help Kurt. Our family has been here days and nights; the strength of your family is the key and the prayers. After the lung collapsed they had to put the ventilator on 90% and his blood gas levels are in the 90's, so is this God letting us know that he needed to have his ventilator decreased. The doctor said that he has a lot of good things going for him all his organs are functioning good with the exception of his lungs. He told us this will be a long process and he has been holding his own for the past couple of days with the exception of his lung collapsing. They put a tube in his lung to release the air from the ventilator around his lung and he is stable now. Every thing we have read on this site has given us hope, but it also scares us that this will keep going up and down for months. Please say a prayer...

posted 12/21/2008
Geri Bellis gericatwoman@yahoo.com
Julie received 3 mechanical heart valves & had a hole in her heart repaired on12/5. She has a history of CHF and COPD. She is presently on a ventilating oscillator, on paralytics & drug-induced coma. The doctors are presently working on lowering her nitrous levels. She is off the cardiac meds, and it's now a waiting game with ARDS. Waiting is hard, but we talk to her, play recordings of her beloved granddaughter, rub her extremities with lotion, gave her pedicure, etc. My son had ARDS 8 years ago and told me you hear all around you but can't tell what is really happening and it felt like a very realistic dream. I know she'll make it, with prayer and the knowledge God has provided for the medical staff. Take heart, folks. Where there is life, there is hope.

posted 12/13/2008
Susan Howe courtneys1nana@alltel.net
My husband had a bone marrow transplant in August of 2008 and was doing well until 3 and a half weeks ago. He had very few side effects from the high doses of chemo he received prior to the transplant. To make a long story short, he now is in the ICU with ARDS. Has anyone else seen this after having chemo? The doctors are giving him only a 10 percent chance of pulling through this.

posted 11/30/2008
Stacy stacy80@cfl.rr.com
My mother has been diagnosed with ARDS as a complication of severe pancreatitis. She has been on a ventilator since November 17th, and in the hospital since November 11th. Today she was able to be awake for a long time, but there is still talk that she is not doing well. We will find out more tomorrow after another CT scan. The doctors are thinking about airlifting her to another hospital in case she needs surgery related to the pancreatitis. All of this has been extremely difficult on our family. Some of us live quite a distance away (including myself) so it is even more of a helpless feeling. Our family is strong and so is our faith in the Lord, which is getting us all through this.

posted 11/20/2008
Kenda L. kendaflynn@sbcglobal.net
On October 24th my mother, who was visiting for the week, had a follow up with her rheumatoid doctor, then was going to head on home. My husband came home to find her still in bed, breathing hard, and confused, with a fever of 103.6. I called an ambulance and they took her to our local hospital for assessment. Later, she was flown to St. Joe's. Here she remains in ICU in critical but stable condition, which seems to be improving as she is responding well to antibiotics. Initially they diagnosed her with pneumonia; however, a pulmonary specialist believes she may also have ARDS.

posted 10/27/2008
Jeff O'Toole jotoole@sfsu.edu
My mother Mary Ann checked into the Kaiser hospital emergency room on Thursday October 2nd, with difficulty breathing. The diagnosis was pneumonia. On Saturday, after several hours of acute difficulty breathing, the doctors put her on a respirator to help her breathe. We have been staying with her overnight and throughout the day. This is affecting the whole family very much. A few nights ago it was good to see her eyes open and get a squeeze from her hand after so many days of her being knocked out from the drugs and sickness. We were hopeful yesterday when for 24 hours she was taken off the ventilator. Today we had a setback and her lungs started to fill with fluid again, so today they had to put her back on the ventilator. It is hard. Thank you for the website!

posted 10/14/2008
Debi pizza-haven@hotmail.com
My mother was admitted to our local hospital on September 16th, 2008 after treatment for what we thought was asthma. On the 17th, she was flown by STARS helicopter transport to a larger hospital an hour away. We were told that she had pneumonia. Now we have been told it is ARDS. It has been 3 and 1/2 weeks now and after a few "sedation vacations" we feel that she is improving. While on "vacation" she is responsive and even good humored despite having a tracheotomy. The hospital staff, however, is trying to prepare us for a not so favorable outcome. HELP! We need support and encouragement to keep on keeping on.

posted 10/11/2008
Theresa Griffiths flsensation@aol.com
My husband David had his appendix rupture and walked around like that for 24 hours. He had his appendix removed and he became septic and had pneumonia. The pulmonary doctor said he had ARDS and his prognosis was very dim. His oxygen sat is 70 at 100 percent oxygen on life support. No other organs have been affected. He has been in the hospital for 2 weeks and 3 days and they just put a trach in 3 days ago. I cry myself to sleep every night . They are keeping him sedated. He tries to communicate, opens his eyes when he hears voices, and will do what is asked on command. I fear the ringing of my cell or home phone that it will be the hospital with awful news. The doctors say there is improvement but very little. To me every little bit counts.

posted 10/3/2008
Tron Sutton tronstr@gmail.com
My 3 year-old daughter had no history of lung issues. She had a fever one day, and the next day she was in the ER, then ICU with ARDS. We have no idea how it came about, and we are looking for answers. My wife also posted here, but I wanted to part of a solution also.

posted 9/13/2008
Jennie jenbommarito@peoplepc.com
Jim started out with flu symptoms; a week later we went to the doctor because he couldn't breathe and his color was a weird bluish grey. The doctor gave him a B-12 shot and sent us home. A week later, he was air lifted to a large hospital put on a vent, and had lung, kidney, and liver failure, bilateral pneumonia and he is now in a drug induced coma. I have never heard of ARDS, and now the love of my life is fighting for his life and we have no clue what caused it.

posted 9/12/2008
Larry Rankin rpl47@comcast.net
Five weeks ago, my sister was admitted for insulin shock (her insulin pump had quit working). They saved her life and stabilized her. When they thought she could stand it, they removed the vent tube. Very soon, they realized they had to re-intubate her. That was when she aspirated stomach contents and the ARDS begin. We are now in week six and they want to do the trach. I agree with them due since they will be able to remove Deb from the drugs. I think this will give her a fighting chance. While drugged, I feel she has no chance. Some ask what her quality of life will be, while I say there is still life. It appears we have a long road ahead of us with no guarantees, but my sister will not be on that road alone.

posted 9/9/2008
Carrie Sutton me@booplover.com
My 3 year-old daughter Nora had no previous injury or illness. I took her to the doctor and the doctor said to go home and watch her fever. Twelve hours later, she was panting like a dog. Later she was intubated and put on life support.

posted 9/9/2008
Brenda Jackson bree.j2333@yahoo.com
They said my mother was having a heart attack, and it turned out her stomach twisted behind her heart. The surgery was successful, but her lung took a hit and we are are having difficulty removing the vent.

posted 9/2/2008
Sherry sherry@sittersondds.com
My husband was diagnosed with ARDS yesterday. He had MRSA about a month ago but it was removed from his knee and he was doing well. Last weekend he was feeling tired and had shallow breathing. The hospital said he had a severe case of pneumonia that has led him to this. Yesterday, his breathing had not improved on BiPap so they now say based on his x-ray, he has ARDS. They do not know the cause. He is in a drug induced coma with an oscillating ventilator. He has improved a little bit, but based on what I have read so far if he makes it it's going to be rough.

posted 8/30/2008
RajaSekar jazztrichy@yahoo.co.in
I need one answer please. Can an appendix operation leads to ARDS? Please provide me examples. Thanks.

posted 8/2/2008
Raj rdevaraj@hotmail.com
My father has been battling with ARDS for the last four months (which he developed from pneumonia). He has been going through cycles of battling infection from bacteria and fungus during this period. This has led to renal failure and he is on dialysis support even though his kidney has recently opened up. Just 45 days back he had a brief episode of bradycardia that reduced oxygen supply to the brain. Since then he has been in a vegetative state and the doctors are calling it hypoxia encephalopathy. He is a 69 year-old diabetic; otherwise he is healthy. The doctors are concerned about the repeated onset of the Candida fungus that is making recovery difficult. He is on and off the ventilator, depending on the infection cycle and I am desperately trying to find help to cope with his condition. Is there anyone who can offer any suggestions on his treatment? Any help will be deeply appreciated.

posted 8/22/2008
Jynifer Gassiott jynifer34@aol.com
My son had a horrible truck accident on July 28th. He sustained massive internal injuries and is now battling ARDS. I am so devastated...I have no idea what to do. I have a lot of faith in the Lord, which is what is carrying me right now. I have never heard of this disease until now.

posted 8/14/2008
Tiffany trinitytyla@hotmail.com
My mother had Gastric Bypass Surgery on July 23rd. Following her surgery she was put into the ICU overnight because she received a pint of blood and she also has severe asthma and they wanted to watch her closely. On July 24th, my mother started to project a dark strong smelling sewer color fluid over and over. The doctors said that she aspirated this into her lungs and now she has ARDS. My mother was on vent for a week and a half and they decided to give her a chance to breathe. She surprised all the doctors and a half and she breathed with just a Nasal Cannula for a day and a half. My mother started vomiting that fluid again, so they had to put her back on the vent. My mom underwent surgery yesterday where a tube was placed in her stomach to drain this bile out. In 24 hours, they have gotten over 5 liters of fluid out of her. Doctors have gone back and forth on the idea of a trach and they have decided they will go ahead and do the trach tomorrow. They said her lungs are great and that they are doing it more to protect her lungs from this bile. I don't feel 100% OK with what they are saying; in fact, I would like to get a second opinion but Dad feels comfortable where we are with her. I feel this could be the beginning of a leakage from her old stomach from surgery. Anyone with any similar cases or any ideas, please let me know. Thank you so much. I'm so afraid I'm going to lose my mother.

posted 8/7/2008
Liz lizard@cox.net
My sister has long battled a disease called Cushing's (since she was 12). This week she started to feel sick, and it turned out she had an e-coli infection, which was followed by ARDS. She is currently on the ventilator. Stats are starting to look good.

posted 8/1/2008
Tina foreverfriendz08@gmail.com
My brother was surfing, had a heart attack, and was revived and brought to the CCU in Shands Hospital. He seemed to be doing well and making improvements. He had a stint put in; two days later, he started regressing. He started having trouble breathing, etc. He is currently intubated with the machine breathing 90% for him. We are awaiting tests to find out what caused it.

posted 7/23/2008
Cynthia Atchison cynthiaatchison@kemet.com
I wanted to talk with other ARDS family members to ask what they did to help with the recovery for their loved one. My husband has ARDS and is on ventilator and has been in the hospital since May 16, 2008. I have read all the letters on the website at ARDS.org and I am delighted to know that some loved ones have survived and would like for some to contact me if they would like. Thanks for all the encouragement on the website. I have to work at the same time so I am not able to spend that much time with him during the day. During the afternoons and evenings, I have lots of time and talk to him and play music. I would like to start taking a book to read soon.

posted 7/9/2008
Cathy Ruddy cathyruddy1@btinternet.com
Patrick is a very close family friend who has been on a ventilator for the last 8 months at a hospital in London. His wife and 16 year old son are two of our close friends and we are doing all we can to support them at this difficult time. Pat originally had a heart attack and during an angiogram his main artery burst. The surgeon did a triple bypass and Pat was sent to intensive care. He did come around from the operation, but then got an infection and contracted ARDS. Since then his lungs have remained stiff and the scans have not shown any improvement. His CO2 levels remain at around 9-10 most days. He is a awake and can communicate with us but his muscles are not moving properly yet though the physios do get him up and sit him in a chair. His condition is no better 8 months later and we are all so worried. Can you let me know if any of you have a similar story and if any treatment has proved positive? My friend's son Sean has sadly started to rebel as a consequence of his fathers illness and his mother Teresa is unable to cope with his behavior. I would love to hear from any survivors of ARDS who may have a similar story.

posted 7/3/2008
Deepa deepa.de@rediffmail.com
It started with a fever, so we took daddy to the family doctor, but the fever did not come down. He stopped having food & had problems breathing, so he was admitted to a hospital. All the lab reports were negative. Then he was shifted to another hospital with an ICU facility in Bombay. There he was diagnosed with ARDS (we had never heard of it before). The x-ray shows severe lung infection (the cause was not known - he does not smoke). He is still in the ICU on a ventilator. The doctors had told that he was critical, but now he is stable. The doctors have told us that he might be on the ventilator until the infection disappears (he has already been on the ventilator for 9 days).

posted 6/5/2008
Jennifer Peavey crowbearcottage@aol.com
My father recently underwent knee replacement & apparently aspirated during surgery. Within hours his lung function began to deteriorate & he was placed on a respirator. My father took a terrible turn for the worse & my 3 siblings & I were called to immediately fly to Arizona to say our goodbyes. My father, however, is a strong, stubborn Finlander & fought his way back! He is now off the respirator & on the road to recovery. We are hopeful that he will fully recover lung function & go on to live a happy, productive life. Thank you to ARDS.ORG for giving us an informational resource that answered so many of our questions.

posted 5/20/2008
Matthew Henry yrnehma@hotmail.com
My sister was diagnosed with ARDS after going to the doctor for pneumonia. Although she has been sick most of her life with diabetes, we thought this was just an "average hospital stay" only to find out it would not be. We are currently on day 12 and today they have fully paralyzed her. We thought we have lost her a couple of times but she continues to fight. My family wants is to understand this monster, and to be in the thoughts and prayers of others.

posted 5/16/2008
Ellen Kimball ellen@retirement.org
My 19-year-old stepson has stage III malignant melanoma. He had surgery to remove lymph nodes and was into his second week of interferon therapy. Last week, he got a staph infection at the site of his "port", which turned into pneumonia then sepsis, and finally as of yesterday they told us it was ARDS. He is now in the hospital sedated, intubated, all the rest. I'm wondering if anyone else has had this happen. I'm wondering if he will ever be able to eventually progress to interferon therapy for the melanoma? This seems so hopeless!

posted 5/15/2008
Rana rhoward530@adelphia.net
About 5 days ago, my mother was on a 4-wheeler for the first time. She pushed on the gas instead of the brake and the 4-wheeler took off and threw her off. She suffered 4 broken ribs and two fractures in her neck. She also had contusions that led to her ARDS. These have been the worst 5 days of my life. I have cried enough to last me a lifetime. I guess the unexpected is what scares me. She has gained 56 pounds of fluid in only 5 days. They say she has turned a corner and is doing better but I am so scared. She has been in a drug induced coma for 3 days now. They are thinking about waking her up in another 2 days or so. I am scared because I don't know what to expect. Is the swelling normal? Will she survive this? If anyone has any advice or help, please email me. We have been praying so hard that the Lord will touch her and heal her. I am not sure what all the settings mean on the vent so I never know when she is doing better. Please keep us all in your prayers!

posted 4/15/2008
Carla O'Neill cahouse5@aol.com
My mother went into the hospital for a hip replacement. By the second day she was in the ICU. They treated her for pneumonia, and she started to aspirate. They sent her to a nursing home for a week in full blown ARDS. We finally got her to a major hospital and she has been in the ICU for two weeks and on a vent for 7 days. We are terrified that we could lose her like this. Reading up on ARDS has been helpful. I would like to hear from people who have recovered.

posted 4/4/2008
Eduardo edo.soriano.hewitt@gmail.com
My mother went into the hospital for a liver resection related to the neuroendocine tumor she has had for the past year or so. She has been in the hospital since February 20th. As of today, she is breathing on a trach, liver function is fine, but she has severe difficulty breathing on her own. As of today the medical staff hasn't been able to conduct a thorough analysis of her lungs. They have treated her with top tier antibiotics and have removed her from the oscillating ventilator. For the past 30 plus days, it has been an emotional roller coaster for my younger brothers and me. We are taking it from day to day.

posted 3/30/2008
Jennifer McCarty jennthemermaid@gmail.com
My mom was just diagnosed with ARDS yesterday. She has been on a ventilator for 3 days now. She has recurring esophageal cancer that has come back in her left bronchial tube (Feb 1 we found out). She had been free and clear of the cancer for 2 years. She had a partial (60%) esophogectomy 2 years ago. She is prone to aspirating vomit into her lungs; she vomits because of her shorter esophagus frequently. She was brought into the hospital 1 week ago with pancreatitis, then she got pneumonia in both lungs. She was fighting for air too much, so they put her on the vent�this is her 4th time on a vent since 2000. I have just read up on ARDS and I had no idea how serious it was until now. They seem to think they can keep her on the vent for a couple of extra days so she can heal from it and then wean her off. They have her sedated with Propofol and she is fine when she is out, but when she wakes up it is TERRIBLE. I just want them to keep her asleep. It is so terribly stressful for all of us.

posted 3/26/2008
Lisa garyslisa@bellsouth.net
Steve was diagnosed with a viral infection, which turned into viral pneumonia and eventually he developed ARDS.

posted 3/10/2008
Carol Ward carol_ward55@yahoo.com
My mother became ill on March 1, 2008. She started vomiting as we were trying to get her to the hospital. She had a history of Angina so we thought she may be having a heart attack. She passed out just before getting to the hospital. With no apparent pulse, the staff shocked her twice, bringing her back. She was then life flighted to Tulsa. The doctors there confirmed she had a massive heart attack to the front part of her heart. She was put on a ventilator. This was bad enough, but then on March 5, they put in a swan catheter to determine why she had a build up of fluid in her lungs. Today we received the horrifying news that she has ARDS and that there is basically nothing they can do. They have been treating her with antibiotics but to no avail. I am at a loss, I don't know what to do. I am a believer in healing and I know that GOD can do anything. My mother is a very devout Christian and I know she is ready to go, but I'm not ready for her to leave us. Please I would welcome any comments, prayers and advice that you can give me. THANK YOU!

posted 3/6/2008
Matt monty2017@hotmail.com
My wife has had RDS for 4 years now. She recently had her gall bladder taken out. she has severe malnutrition, and she went to hospital for it. After one week, her blood pressure bottomed out. They flooded her with fluid, and to maintain her blood pressure, she was put on 100% oxygen then finally vented.
She now has ARDS.

posted 2/12/2008
Barbara Hatfield hatfield225@sbcglobal.net
My stepmother is in the ICU with a trach and vent, plus a PEG/feeding tube. The doctors are at a loss to explain why ARDS has attacked her. She was diagnosed with a light case of pneumonia in late December and was on antibiotics. She was experiencing shortness of breath and visited her family practitioner who admitted her to the hospital on January 14. Her condition has deteriorated to the point where she is now, three weeks later. I would like to communicate with those who currently have or recently have had a loved one in crisis.

posted 2/4/2008
Chris Lamb clamb@admin.clio.k12.mi.us
My dad went in for two bypasses of his heart. He pulled through fine, then days later couldn't breathe. We are on day 40 since surgery. He has a trach for ventilation. He has lost all muscle strength. He was paralyzed and sedated but now he is just sedated. His CT scan showed a "white out." We are in such turmoil. One day he is doing well, then the next, his stats are up/down. It is so difficult to keep the hope and faith.

posted 12/28/2007
Susie Kayser kayserthree@yahoo.com
My husband worked for a co-op as a grain specialist. He was attempting to harness up to load a rail car and fell 15 feet onto the rail. The doctor says it was like falling 3 stories. He broke his back and will never walk again. If that is not devastating enough, he also bounced onto his chest and broke 8 ribs on the left side. They had to remove 1 and a 1/2 ribs on the right side. He broke and displaced 7 ribs, punctured a lung, and had 2 chest tubes in due to air pockets in the chest from his fall. This led to pneumonia. The chest injury was so devastating he now has ARDS.

posted 12/17/2007
Diane Uda fitmodel@aol.com
My brother-in-law contracted bacteria pneumonia. After being admitted to the hospital, he quickly became an ARDS patient. We are currently in experimental drug therapy on a ventilator in a drug induced coma on a bed that turns 180 degrees. Is there anything else we can be doing to get his lungs to breathe on their own? Has anyone used a ECMO machine?

posted 11/29/2007
Tina canuckgurl10_1@hotmail.com
My dad was brought to the hospital with stomach pains. It turned out to me a perforated ulcer of the duodenum. He went into surgery 2 days later. He was intubated, then extubated, then re-intubated. He has since been diagnosed with ARDS, he had a heart attack and they are concerned with a battery of other things since he is diabetic and has hypertension. Does being diabetic hinder any sort of recovery? What kind of questions should I ask his doctor? My dad has been chemically comatose since his ordeal has started. I need some help.

posted 11/18/2007
Lisa thesketchpadink@aol.com
My mother was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer on October 9, 2007. On October 29th, she had VATS and was put on a ventilator within 48 hours. On November 6th, we were told she has ARDS. I am just trying to find out as much as possible and maybe find someone who knows what questions to ask and what to be prepared for.

posted 11/6/2007
Carol Smith carolsmiths@yahoo.com
My 81 year old father is in his second week in the ICU, and is currently on Peep. He has not had invasive ventilation, but it is a standing order in the event his oxygen sats drop again. A week ago he was returned to nasal oxygen tubes, but has regressed to this point. Morphine, prednisone, blood thinners, and insulin are being used for his treatment. He has mental confusion and unbelievable physical weakness. He still has pneumonia after 3 weeks of IV antibiotics, which was the original illness. My mother died 6 years ago, and he married a childhood friend 1 1/2 years ago. He has big plans for them.

posted 10/25/2007
Martina Spears martina.spears@insightbb.com
My mother recently underwent surgery to remove cancer from her upper left lobe of her lung. The surgery was a success and she came through it like a champ. Seven days after surgery, she was released to rehab, which was on a Thursday. Friday, right before lunch, I stopped in to see her. She was excited, she had just had a shower and couldn't wait to get to the dining hall for lunch. Less than four hours later, she was sobbing on her bed complaining of trouble breathing. I soothed her, checked on her oxygen and told her to just stay calm and breathe. She settled down to sleep, so I left. A few short hours later, we were notified that mother had been transported back to the hospital with low oxygen stats. Thus the battle began. Quickly mom had to be ventilated and none of us knew. On Saturday morning we were informed that she had been transferred to ICU and was on a ventilator. It is now Tuesday. I talked to the lung doctor and her infectious disease doctors this morning and they pulled out the acronym ARDS. Of course I came running home to figure just exactly what it is. And we are now taking it one day at a time and still trying to figure out what exactly caused the trauma or illness that has mom by the tail. Hopefully in 48 to 72 hours we will have the preliminary results of a scope they did yesterday.

posted 10/2/2007
Calvin Walker calvin@walkersecurity.org
My wife is Cathy Walker. She was diagnosed with malignant melanoma in November, 2006. In January, 2007, all the cancer removed and she started Interferon treatments. This is a very toxic drug that kills the immune system but is supposed to give an additional 2 to 3 years before cancer returns. Following is a short rundown of where she is today:

August 1st: took Cathy to doctor she was having pain in her chest when ever she took a breath. He sent her to the hospital with a mild case of pneumonia.
August 3rd: Moved to intermediate care unit and put on a positive pressure air mask.
August 4th: Moved to critical care unit, put on a respirator and I was told she hade very little chance of living out the night.
August 5th: Bay Area Hospital has done all they could do for her. She was airlifted to University Hospital ICU who diagnosed her with ARDS. She has been given very little chance of survival.
August 12th: It has been a week long rollercoaster ride. Cathy is showing some signs of improvement. The doctors and nurses are now saying "when" she goes home instead of "if." I'm also being told to expect her to remain in critical condition in the ICU for another 2 weeks and in the hospital for probably 3 months barring any complications!

(Interferon appears to be directly related to ARDS in this case.)

posted 8/13/2007
Joyce Kober joykober@gmail.com
On June 27th, my husband had laparoscopic gall bladder surgery. He went home after 2 nights in the hospital; he immediately returned because he could not breathe. They said he had pneumonia in the right lung, gave him an IV for 5 days and sent him home. Five days later, he was back in intensive care; by now the left lung was so infected it could not be seen. We live in Costa Rica and only came to Pennsylvania to see his kids and grandkids. They think he aspirated during the gall surgery. He will get a trach next Tuesday. He is totally sedated; he has had 6 surgeries including a bypass and prostrate cancer in the last 5 years. This far surpasses any of them. My friends call and email, but I am totally alone with him and God. I know the only true thing that will work is prayers.

posted 8/4/2007
Rene r_dunfee@sbcglobal.net
My mother-in-law went in for gastric bypass surgery on June 20. She was supposed to be in the hospital after surgery for 2-3 days, but was having complications. The surgeon believed that she had a leak in her intestine and took her back in for a 4 hour long surgery to find and repair the leak. After she came out of the surgery, they put her on a respirator. They said she should be off it in a couple days. She started having trouble getting off of it and they did some tests. They found that she had an infection, but they are not sure exactly where. They also found that she has ARDS. They tried to put a trach in today because she has been on the respirator for 2 weeks, but she was not stable enough for the trach. We are all very worried and praying a lot.

posted 7/6/2007
April and Steve benenatism@comcast.net
Our daughter Pollyanna was eating a snack at 9pm, and her mother and I went to bed. I awoke at 1am to find her on the floor of the kitchen laying on her back, unconscious and barely breathing. I called 911, and they were here in minutes. She aspirated, while unconscious from a mixture of drugs and alcohol. We're not too sure what happened. She has been in ICU on a ventilator since June 17, 2007. She has been on 100% oxygen, but the last few days, the doctor gave her steroids and her oxygen assist is now down to 65%. This is good. We are taking it hard and need support from you.

posted 7/6/2007
Jennifer Burns jjburns66@hotmail.com
My daughter Colleen flew from Milwaukee to California to visit her father on Monday June 11. On the morning of June 14, I got a frantic call from her stepmother that they had been unable to wake Colleen that morning and that she had vomited in her bed. They called 911 and she was taken to North Bay Medical Center in Fairfield, where she was originally treated for aspiration pneumonia, but moved to John Muir on June 16 when it was clear that ARDS had developed. As of June 29, she remains in ICU, on a vent and heavily sedated.
Her status changes from day to day and hour to hour. I flew out right away, stayed 8 days, went home for 3 days and came back because she was crashing. She is still with us making baby steps of progress, but in worse shape than last week.

posted 6/29/2007
Allison allisonj76@yahoo.com
My brother Jon's situation is a little difficult to describe. Basically he was misdiagnosed by his primary doctor, and subsequently has developed ARDS as a result of a rare life-threatening form of a fungal infection called blastomycosis. He is currently undergoing treatment at Northwestern Memorial Hospital and is in their ICU. He has been there about 9 days. He was flown there after the doctors at our area hospital had exhausted their options. Our family is devastated and we would like to get involved with any support groups that may be able to help us through this difficult time.

posted 6/20/2007
Carol Robinson crobb1120@comcast.net
My daughter has been in the ICU, heavily sedated, since May 11, 2007. Her diagnosis is constrictive bronchiolitis. My husband and I are living in a nightmare. They have put her in a rotoprone bed. She is improving.

posted 6/14/2007
Connie Graham cgraham103@aol.com
My husband Roy was diagnosed with cancer in the beginning of April and started his chemo treatment in mid-April. He had been through 2 cycles of the chemo getting 3 drugs Etoposide, Cisplatin and Bleomycin. He got a treatment of Bleomycin on Tuesday, May 29, 3 weeks ago today. By Thursday he had shortness of breath and as he also has cardiomypathy. We took him to the emergency room. They diagnosed pneumonia and admitted him and started antibiotics. By the following week, he still had not improved so the did a scope of his lungs and took samples to test. The next day, May 31st, they started him on steroids. By Saturday, he was in intensive care and on a breathing machine. By Wednesday of last week, he was really struggling to breathe and was put on the ventilator. They have him on a rotoprone bed and are giving him 65% oxygen down from 100% from when they put him on the ventilator. Yesterday they put breathing tubes in each lung because air was starting to leak into his chest and they were afraid he would not survive a collapsed lung. The doctors have decided the most probable cause of the lung injuries was the Bleomycin. There has been no improvement in the chest x-rays so far. They found no sign of infection. His heart is doing well and all his other body systems are good. He was conscious and understood what was going on when they put him on the ventilator. I know he is getting good care and there is not much that I can do for him at this time. I know we are in for a very long hard time and hope to just get myself through so that when he comes home I can take care of him.

posted 6/12/2007
Greg oligodude@verizon.net
My mother is currently in a hospital in LA. She developed ARDS or a similar condition after her initial hospitalization for unrelated heart problems. After progressing from CCU (on a ventilator around 2 weeks) to cardiac rehab, she apparently aspirated on some vomit and had to re-enter ICU care. Her overall medical issues are resolved, but she has been back on the ventilator (now via tracheotomy) for about 3 weeks, and apparently will require extended pulmonary rehab to try to wean her off. We are considering transporting her back home to CT for this phase of recuperation. My question is: Does anyone have advice on appropriate facilities in CT to handle my mother's care for this upcoming phase of treatment, or know of a resource to help gather this information?

posted 6/11/2007
Deanna jessndee@cox.net
My father walked himself into the hospital on a Monday and was put on a vent by Tuesday (a week ago today). I live in Arizona and was able to fly to California for the weekend, but I was devastated when I realized this is a ride I can be on for a while. My reality is that I cannot afford to stay there for 3-4 weeks. Leaving was the hardest thing to do. It is a 12 hour drive for me and a 2 hour flight. I want to be there as much as I can, and it hurts to know I have to leave him. We do have other family there, but they do not spend the time with him I would like.

posted 5/1/2007
Stacy stacysteely@yahoo.com
My dear friend and mentor has reached the point where she can no longer live on her own. ARDS, scleroderma and a multitude of other issues have her constantly hospitalized or in need of friends and family to be with her. How do we tell her it is time for something more permanent where she will have constant care? And where might that be?

posted 4/22/2007
Heather Blevins honeybee0820@yahoo.com
My Aunt Jane has been sick for some time and when she was admitted to the hospital, I thought she was finally going to get the help she needed. She was admitted with dehydration, but with every treatment came a new diagnosis. Soon, she was sent to ICU to be more closely monitored. She remained in ICU for some time, and they were trying to regulate her blood pressure. She was soon diagnosed with ARDS brought on by pneumonia. The ventilator followed closely behind. She has been off the ventilator once, but she got worse quickly and is now back on the ventilator for O2 assistance. My family is discussing the possibility of a tracheotomy. I'm a nurse myself and even I'm scared of the outlook.

posted 4/9/2007
Alicia Sauer asauer@surfect.com
My husband had heart surgery (aortic valve replacement) on January 31, 2007. The right side of his heart was fine prior to surgery. After Byron had his heart surgery at 7:30 am, I was unable to speak to my husband coherently until Saturday, February 17th. My husband remained in an induced coma and suffered liver and kidney failure, with the doctors racing to figure out how to spare his life. On February 4th, the liver enzymes finally started declining from 5K to the 1500's; he remained on dialysis for another week and then his kidneys kicked back in. The doctors never told me he was suffering from ARDS, but after reading the web site, they followed the treatment plan to a T with Ventilators and the Treatment of ARDS. My husband went into a second surgery on Friday night (Feb 16th) for a trach and a feeding tube and to also re-wire the sternum, which had come apart during induced coma as my husband fought the ventilator for 16 days. He now is recovering at home on a wound vac for his chest and suffering from PTSD from everything that occurred in the Cardiac Unit. We were not told if the reason was septic or trauma from the heart surgery. We are stressed and have no answers, nevertheless grateful that my husband survived the terrible odds. We have a long way to go and need some support. Thank you.

posted 4/6/2007
Rosie Santiago 777500@hanger.com
My husband had lung cancer for the second time in six years. After the first surgery, he was out of the hospital in 4 days; this time he had post op complications, one after another. A pulmonary artery was cut and stitched, During recover, my husband was waking up and started coughing. As they were taking out the tube from his mouth, they opened up that stitch. He then was rushed for a second surgery to repair that artery. After that, he had some type of allergic reaction and his vitals were going crazy. We almost lost him again for the second time that day, which was March 5, 2007. On Tuesday, he woke up feeling fine. By Wednesday, he had a fever and that evening he started having trouble breathing. After that, it was going down hill. By Sunday they said he may have ARDS, and that's where we are now. After four weeks, there have been many ups and downs with fevers and chest tubes and a trachea. I feel lost with out him. He does not know who I am, but shakes his head yes and no with memories of the kids. He smiled for me the other day and that melted my heart, but the days that he can not reply just hurt so much. The doctors really did not say much of what ARDS is, but I looked it up and really understand a little more of what is going on with him. I just don't know how long will he be confused. Is this normal for someone with ARDS to be so confused for this long? Three weeks and not much of improvement. But nothing else is going wrong so I thank God for that.

posted 4/3/2007
Lori Duvall glasgowduvall1@aol.com

My mother has ARDS and this is so hard! She had surgery for a bowel blockage on March 19, 2007. When she came out, she was OK, except in a great pain. Then everything went downhill on March 21st when the doctors talked to us about a staph infection. Then they told us she has blood poisoning in her blood system, urine and lungs. They told us that a breathing mask would help, but she was breathing too fast, so they recommended a breathing machine. She has had a port located in her chest for the past 8 years. The doctors have always had trouble getting blood out of her for testing in the past, so this would benefit her for an emergency if it ever came up. The surgeon, my mother's angel, tested the port and it was very infected! She removed it and took a biopsy, and they determined that is how she was infected with ARDS. She is sedated and just lies there like she is in a coma. She was in Barren County Hospital in our home town, and in and out of the hospital for 3 weeks. She was told she had pneumonia, and she was vomiting bile from her body. She was so weak that she could barley walk. The doctors down here said she was not in critical condition. I called Dr. Glendiac in Louisville and told her nurse about her situation. She said to transfer her here and keep the IV's in her. The doctors here said that she was not critical enough to take her by ambulance, so my brother and I took her by car. Dr, Glendiac said she couldn't read the x-rays at all, and said If she had stayed any longer she would have died. So they did the surgery and that's all good now. It's the ARDS and blood poisoning in her body that the doctors are worried about. They are all focused on the lungs right now. Please pray for us! My father has been up there, and has been so sick and tired, and my brother and aunt have stayed up there as well. I have my son Joseph, and he has school, so I have to take care of him, but I will make it up there tomorrow. Our church, and family and friends, are praying for her recovery.

posted 3/26/2007
Colleen denmimah@aol.com
My good friend of 37 years went in to have gastric bypass surgery. She came home the very next day. The second day she was home, she was in severe abdominal pain. Ann called another friend of hers, who is a nurse, and asked, "What does a heart attack feel like?" Her answer was "Call 911". They did, and she was taken by ambulance to the hospital, and they were told she just had gastric surgery. They gave her charcoal amounts for a regular stomach. They thought she had overdosed on the pain medication. Ann threw up, since that's what charcoal makes you do. Ann aspirated and is now in the ICU with ARDS. The pain was from a hernia. They operated on her for that too. She was on the vent, and now she has a trach. She has also been on the rotoprone bed. They found an abscess in her stomach and drained that. Now they are doing CAT scans, and they know she has another infection somewhere else. It is up and down. This started on March 2, 2007, and now it's March 21st. She was in a coma, and now she is sedated and doesn't even move. I can only leave this in God's hands.

posted 3/21/2007
Sharon Chagnon sharchag@adelphia.net
My daughter had the flu for a week or so, and when she finally went to the doctor, she couldn't speak at all. She was diagnosed with laryngitis. The doctor put her on antibiotics and sent her home. That was on a Tuesday. On Friday morning, she was life flighted to the hospital. She is now on life support with 9 different IV's in her neck and arms. Every day something new appears, and it is not good news. She has blood clots in her legs and lung along with those collapsing. Now she has 5 chest tubes in her, a fever of 103 for a week now and her body is swollen and bruised. I am taking care of her daughter (my granddaughter) until she gets home. She has been in the hospital a little over a month now. Basically it's one step forward and 5 steps back. I have this guilty feeling leaving her there in the hospital and me back at home, which is about a 2 hour drive.

posted 3/14/2007
Tanya tkutenics@telus.net
My Dad had the lower lobe of his right lung removed on the 28th of February. He developed a massive blood clot after 3 days and was intubated with a ventilator for about 24 hours. He showed slight improvement over the next couple of days until Monday, March 5th. He was once again put on the ventilator to help him breathe. The doctor phoned this morning (Thursday, March 8th) and informed us that Dad has ARDS. We are soooo scared!!! Both lungs are involved, his better (left) lung being the worst. This web site has given us the first information on this terribly frightening condition. He is currently on 40% oxygen, and PEEP??? The doctors are giving him steroids and antibiotics. Dad is awake and aware of everything that is going on. I can't imagine how frightened he is. I write this looking for support, answers, and comfort. Please reply!

posted 3/9/2007
Thigee Pather thigee@aapt.net.au
My father-in-law went into the hospital on November 8, 2006 for a simple hernia operation. However, due to complications arising from the operation, he ended up with septicemia. It is now nearly 4 months later and this week he developed ARDS. The doctors first thought that it was heart failure, but have since ruled that out. He is on a machine providing him with oxygen and today it was decided that palliative treatment will be given and there seems to be no hope of him recovering. He is now on morphine and other drugs to make him comfortable.

posted 3/7/2007

Myra Adriano nars2k@yahoo.com

Hi, I'm Myra. My 4 year-old daughter Iyana was diagnosed with ARDS just yesterday. She is our only daughter, and my husband Larry is at the bedside with her now. She is on a paralytic agent for the oscillator, and other medications to support her vital signs. We almost lost her yesterday, but now she is stable and they are slowly titrating the meds she is on.
 

posted 3/3/2007

Nicolas Hoots nic_hoots@earthlink.net

My 4 year-old daughter went to the hospital with upper airway problems, and they thought it was croup. They gave her breathing treatments and steroids and it didn't help. She stopped breathing and was revived, and then she vomited. She aspirated her vomit and was then rushed by helicopter to the nearest Children's hospital. Now she is on her third ventilator, really an oscillator, 3 chest tubes, 7 medications, has a hole in the lung, and tubes in both nostrils. Her cO2 level keeps elevating and they can't seem to get it down, her pH level is below 7.2, and her oxization is only 85%. Her settings on the oscillator are at the highest setting for her and nothing seems to be helping.
 

posted 2/25/2007

Anthoni ahmore1@yahoo.com

I'm not sure if my mom has ARDS, but she has bronchitis, a fib, osteoporosis, hiatal hernia, and she is only 58! I am the oldest son, and my mom has been in the ICU for 3 weeks now. She was in one hospital, where she had been intubated, and then sent to a nursing home, and then to another hospital, where she was re-intubated again. Her O2 level had been dropping and that's why she was placed on the vent. She had a tracheotomy and is on 30 percent O2 on the pressure machine. I am very confused. My mom is also heavily sedated and really red and swollen. I call and try to go every day, but they all said she is the same. her PCP and lung doctor say she is stuck. I miss my mom and the guilt of my behavior is driving me crazy. Can anyone tell me how easy is it to be weaned off a respirator with a tracheotomy? She is on insulin, feeding tube, the trach, all kinds of antibiotics, and her labs haven't really changed. Doctors don't know if she is too tired to try to recover of if her bronchitis has gotten worse. Please help and keep her in your prayers. I'm turning to alcohol for relief because I feel consumed. My family here in the US and in Colombia is praying!
 

posted 2/24/2007

Dale Swanzer dale.swanzer@thrivent.com

My brother was in an accident a little over a week ago that broke the upper and lower part of his leg. He underwent surgery for the upper portion of his leg on 2/16/2007. Later that evening he became ill with a low BP reading, fever and low oxygen; on Saturday morning he was placed into the intensive care unit. He has been sedated and is on a ventilator. At this time we are not seeing much progress. The number is on the machine is at 70 and his oxygen level is at between 89-92. They lowered the oxygen level that they are giving him to 55 yesterday but now they increased it back up to 70. I have come to believe that this is going to take a very long time and was wondering if anyone can give me some insight on what to expect in the coming days.
 

posted 2/23/2007

Susan Streight suzyk8855@sbcglobal.net

My friend, Jackie, fell and broke her hip in November, 2006. The next day she developed a fatty embolus that located itself in her left lung. All this led to ARDS. She got over the first bout in December, and was doing much better until a month ago, when the ARDS came back in force. Now both lungs are involved. She has been on a ventilator for over 3 months now. Now there is talk that there may or may not be brain damage. Her husband is about to have a nervous breakdown from the ups and downs she has encountered. Please, if anyone can help me help her family in understanding and continuing to keep hope.
 

posted 2/20/2007

Darryl Bush darrylpix@sbcglobal.net

Dion hasn't been given a diagnosis. The patient has severe respiratory difficulty, and is on a respirator. The lungs are stiffening, and the patient is taking steroids and antibiotics. The doctors offer little help and say they're doing all they can. The patient had a recent staph infection, but the hospital says it isn't related.
 

posted 1/20/2007

Jason Harrison j.harrison@picoworld.com

My mother was in an accident three weeks ago and had injuries to her lungs, ribs, and liver. Her right lung was slightly bleeding but was repaired internally. Her liver had a grade 4 laceration but healed on its own shortly after the accident. Mom was awake and talking to the doctors when she was brought to the hospital. She is on a respirator and was given sedation and paralytic drugs to keep her stable. She developed pneumonia as well. The pneumonia has been cured with antibiotics and she is no longer on the paralytic or sedation medication. She still has a central line IV giving her antibiotics. She is only given pain medication as needed. The main issue is that she still requires the respirator and she is not as responsive as the doctors would like. She has her eyes open and can open and close her mouth and will occasionally try to move her head and eyes toward the person who is talking to her. She has not moved any other body part and seems paralyzed. A few days before they gave her the paralytic medication, she was able to move her arms and head and seemed more responsive. The doctors have done a CAT scan and it didn't show any signs of a stroke. All blood flowing to her brain is unobstructed.